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  • 4: Emotional, physical & cognitive responses to parents' work
  • 5: Social responses to parents working away (work rosters); household transitions
  • 6. Parent/carer physical and mental health, community links
  • 7: Parenting from different states/continents, sharing
  • 8: Work-related injuries (physical and mental)
  • 9: Work-related mental health conditions; moral injury
  • 10: Relationship breakdown
  • 11: Addictions
  • 12: Abuse (family and domestic violence, child abuse, neglect)
  • 13: When a parent dies in service (including death by suicide)
  • 14: Child and family trauma
  • 15: And so, things have been a bit different: Ben's story
  • 16: In Sickness and in Health: Sam's Story
  • 17: Oh, by the way, my Mum has PTS: Nathan's story
  • 18: Liam's story: So why do I wear Dad's medals?
  • Dad's Moral Injury Cloud: Lara's Story
  • Moral Injury
  • Relocations; household transitions
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  • Worried about your child's wellbeing and mental health?

    Worried about your child's wellbeing and mental health?

    • As a child or young person grows in their learning and development, it is important to proactively take steps to ensure each child's physical, emotional and social wellbeing. Children from service families are required to navigate many unique challenges and difficult situations that can impact a child's mental health positively or negatively. Seeking support early is vital to ensuring a child is actively and appropriately supported. 

      Our programs offer free resources throughout the online modules to support each child's wellbeing and build their capacity to tackle service-specific challenges and thrive.

      These pages might be useful if you want to know more about wellbeing and mental health. If you believe your child has prolonged and severe challenges, please seek professional advice.

    • The difference between wellbeing and mental health The difference between wellbeing and mental health
    • Let's take a look at how mental health is defined. Mental health can affect anyone at any age. In using these resources, you may find relevance for yourself or another adult member of your family. In this case, please seek professional support.

      This diagram from the Australian Capital Territory Government shows 12 domains that contribute to our wellbeing.


      Each of the petals helps to make up the flower, in the same way that each of these domains makes up our wellbeing. So, for example, if we are unable to have strong social connections, then the flower will not be as likely to thrive. This website shows simple ways to improve our wellbeing using some (but not all) of these domains.

    • Check your mental health - and your child's (Beyond Blue) Check your mental health - and your child's (Beyond Blue)
    • This kit is designed to support the wellbeing of teenagers and young people who have a parent with a service-related mental health condition. It is Canadian, so Canadian terminology may be used throughout. Support services will be different for Australian and those in other countries.

    • Teenage and youth mental health resource kit Teenage and youth mental health resource kit

      Australian resources

      In Australia, support can be gained from: Open Arms (defence and veteran family members), Legacy (all veteran family members), and Defence Member Family Support (currently serving family members), Fortem Australia (for first responder families), Military and Emergency Services Health Australia (MESHA - all service families), and Lifeline (community supports for any families). Additionally, for those who care for paramedics, Everymind has a free online course to support you in that role (see Minds Together).

    • Types of therapy

      If you have recognised some mental health challenges your child is experiencing, there are multiple pathways to support your child. Tapping into psychological services, including counselling is one way to support your child. Depending on their age and the type of concern, different therapies might be effective. Listed below are a range of therapeutic approaches that a psychologist or support worker may use.
    • Parent-child interaction therapy Parent-child interaction therapy
    • Play Therapy Play Therapy
    • Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT) Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT)
    • You can also search for 'Play-based therapists' and 'Arts-based therapists' that use a trauma-informed approach in your local area.

    • Parent training

    • Filial therapy is similar to play therapy, but it aims to give parents the skills to lead the sessions with their child.

    • Filial Therapy Filial Therapy
    • Partners in Parenting (Headspace 12-25 year olds) Partners in Parenting (Headspace 12-25 year olds)
    • Counselling and support options (free)

    • Open Arms (for Defence and veteran families) Open Arms (for Defence and veteran families)
    • Fortem Australia (for First Responder families) Fortem Australia (for First Responder families)
    • For Defence, veteran and first responder families

    • Military Emergency Services Health Australia (MESHA) Military Emergency Services Health Australia (MESHA)
    • For all families

    • Kids Helpline (parent information) Kids Helpline (parent information)
    • Kids Helpline webchat counselling Kids Helpline webchat counselling
    • Kids helpline for children Kids helpline for children
    • Kids Helpline teenagers (13-17 years) Kids Helpline teenagers (13-17 years)
    • Kids Helpline young people (18-25 years) Kids Helpline young people (18-25 years)
    • Headspace (13-25 year olds) Headspace (13-25 year olds)
    • Lifeline Lifeline
    • Counselling and support options (private)

      If you do not want to use the free services above, or you are not eligible, talking to your GP is a good first step. If needed, a GP can organise a mental health plan for you to give you subsidised visits to a mental health clinician, such as a counsellor or psychologist.

      For those in regional, rural and remote communities, considering telehealth, webchat, and text chat based services might help you receive help earlier.
    • Other related modules

      Child and Family Resilience modules have been developed to assist your family. Other modules that might be useful for you are:

      Module 8: Work-related physical injuries and medical conditions

      Module 9: Work-related mental health conditions

      Module 12: Abuse (family and domestic, child abuse, neglect)

      Module 13: When a parent dies or attempts suicide

      Module 14: Child and family trauma

      This module explores trauma and how parents' work-related (or service-related) trauma can be passed on to children. It is useful for parents and carers looking to support their children within military, veteran, first responder and remote working families.

      Module 20: Moral Injury

      You can also create Personalised programs for your child.

      Other supports

      Try to familiarise yourself with relevant organisations that offer national support. These might include:

      Defence and/or Veteran Families

      • Defence Member & Family Support (DMFS)
      • Legacy
      • Defence Families of Australia
      • Defence Housing Australia
      • Soldier On
      • Mates4Mates

      First Responder Families
      • Everymind Minds Together program (for carers of paramedics)
      All families

      • Kookaburra Kids
      • Beyond Blue
      Smiling Minds is a not-for-profit organisation. They have a free mindfulness app for adults and programs for schools.

    • Parenting information (Raising Children Network)

      Babies and toddlers

      School-age

      Pre-teen and teen mental health

      Parents mental health
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